There
Is A Secret Formula That
Guarantees Success
Alan B. Densky, CH |
Everyone is a unique individual with their own strengths and weaknesses. Therefore, some of us require a highly customized and unique intervention that is only possible with a custom hypnosis program.
One of the presuppositions of
NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) is that "there is a
positive intention behind all behaviors." And based on that
presupposition, when it comes to successfully eliminating
negative behaviors, there is formula that we must always
keep in mind. I'll let you in on the secret in a minute. But
first, I have a riddle for you to solve. Riddle: A minister
made his son drink lye, which burned out his vocal chords.
What was the positive intention behind his behavior?
If you are like 99.9% of the clients who have come into my
office since 1978, you'll indignantly say something like:
"There's no positive intention behind that
behavior." But you would be 100% wrong. To
answer this riddle, first you have to separate the behavior
from the positive intention of the behavior.
I
do NOT have a script that I merely insert your name into. I
create a totally unique program for each individual, based
on a thorough case history done either by phone or email.
If
you are like 99.9% of the clients who have come into my
office since 1978, you'll indignantly say something like:
"There's no positive intention behind that
behavior." But you would be 100% wrong. To
answer this riddle, first you have to separate the behavior
from the positive intention of the behavior. The
minister's son was cursing. And the minister believes
that if a person curses, his soul will be condemned to
Hell. So the answer is that the minister was burning
out his son's voice box so that he couldn't curse. So
he was saving his son's soul from being condemned to Hell.
The secret formula for
success works as follows:
We
must always respect the positive intent behind every
behavior. If we have a compulsion to use a behavior
that we don't like, we can easily get rid of the compulsion
to use that behavior providing we find another behavior to
substitute in it's place that is as effective and available
at accomplishing the same outcome, but is more consciously
acceptable to you. This is called a REFRAME. You're
probably wondering what all this has to do with Custom
CD's. Be a little patient, and you will clearly see
what it has to do with Custom CD's in a moment. When
clients come into my office, one of the first things that I
do is to take a thorough case history. Let's say that
they come in and ask me to help them overcome their
appetite. Conventional wisdom tells us that the two
main reasons that people eat excessively are: (1) for
relaxation and pleasure; (2) because eating can be a
conditioned response. For instance, if a person eats
while they are watching TV, they will develop a conditioned
response, and thereafter, every time they sit down to watch
TV, they'll get cravings and an urge to eat. However,
the above answer only takes into consideration the possible
positive intention behind the eating behavior. What if
they also have another behavior that is involved in the equation?
For example: What if being fat is also a behavior for this
person? I can hear your mind grinding right now as you
think, "Being fat isn't a behavior, what are you
talking about?" Sorry
but you could be 100% wrong. Here is one simple
classic text book example that will illustrate the fact that
being fat can be a behavior. It can be a behavior
because it can accomplish positive outcomes. Example:
A woman is deeply in love.
Her boyfriend breaks up with her, and breaks her
heart. Her unconscious mind wants to protect her
emotionally and prevent her from having her heart broken
again, so it motivates her to get fat to keep her out
of relationships. That way she won't get her heart
broken again. The
point is that everyone is totally different. And
sometimes there are hidden elements at work causing
compulsive behaviors. These are elements that are
different for each person. Here
is another example: A woman comes into my office complaining
of an uncontrollable urge to overeat at dinner time.
During my case history, upon questioning, the woman explains
how she was never able to satisfy her
father. We
did an age regression, and one of her earliest memories was
of eating dinner with the family. Her dad was
insisting in a very loud voice that she clean her plate,
even though she felt full. So she cleaned her plate
because of fear, and dad commended her for eating everything.
It was one of the only times in her life that she could
recall her dad telling her that he was happy with her. Shoot
forward to present day. Dad's been dead for years, but
the unconscious program he installed is still working.
She still has a compulsion to clean her plate, even if she
is feeling stuffed, because by cleaning the plate she is
getting dad's approval, and eliminating her fear! Here's
Why Hypnosis In My Office Is So Effective
When
a client comes into my office, regardless of what the
symptoms are, I do a complete case history so that I can
uncover any hidden agendas that the unconscious might have.
That way I can customize my techniques and suggestions to
reframe the unconscious negative behaviors. But
when I sell a client a prerecorded program, I can't
do a case history, and there is a chance that there will be
hidden issues that will need to be REFRAMED before
the client can be totally successful.
Here's
Why My Custom CD's Are So Effective
When
a person purchases a Custom CD, I call that person on
the phone (on my dime when client lives within the US. Other
countries require client to call, or we can do the interview
with a series of emails) and interview him/her for an hour or
more. I do a very through case history. In that
way, I can create a custom program that will effectively do
a REFRAME on any negative behaviors. Custom
programs take a lot of time to do, but I enjoy the
challenge, and I enjoy being able to provide the kind of
help that is very hard to find. I do NOT have a script that
I merely insert your name into. I create a unique program
for each person, based on a thorough case history. Here's
How The Custom CD Program Works
Purchase
the Custom CD program by clicking the button below. Then
send me an email outlining your problem.
If you reside within the
US, let me know within the email a good
time for me (or my brother George) to call you to setup an
appointment for our telephone consultation. It needs
to be a time when you won't feel rushed, or be distracted.
We will pay all long-distance phone charges within the US. Then
I will call you and do a thorough case history. After
that it will take about one week until I have created
your Custom Program. If
you reside outside of the US, it is your responsibility to
pay any long-distance phone charges. Or, if you prefer, we
can do the consultation via emails. There
is no refund or return privilege on the Custom Programs
because I have to invest several hours between your
consultation, writing a script for a process instruction or
a metaphor, and then professionally recording and editing your CD. Even
though it takes a tremendous amount of time, talent, and
experience, my professional fee is still only $595.00.
To
Get Started:
1.
Use
the "Order Custom" button below to purchase your
Custom CD.
2. Send
an email to me with the following information: Your
name, street address and phone number(s). Include a
description of the problem you would like to work on,
including a description of your previous experience with
hypnosis, if any.
3. The
next step is to arrange the telephone interview. Either I,
or my brother George will call you to set that up. (If you
are in the US)
4. During your
telephone interview, take the call in a place where you will
not be disturbed. Expect that the session will last between
one and two hours. I will call you, and I will pay for the
call.
Have
questions? Email me at alan@neuro-vision.us
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